Sometimes that negative voice in my head can be a tyrant, spewing out one discouraging thought after another. Today I discovered an affirmation in Alan Cohen’s book “A Deep Breath of Life” that could stop that tyrant dead in its tracks:
Thank you for everything.
I have no complaints whatsoever.
When I first said this affirmation, I said it slowly several times to let the meaning sink in. It felt good to remember what I was thankful for. So good that I decided to practice this statement all day. Throughout the day, if there was any hint of a complaint or negative judgment coming up, I’d repeat the affirmation.
Here’s what happened:
When I started to feel impatient with myself about how long I was spending tweaking my blog…I said to myself, “Thank you for everything. I have no complaints whatsoever,” then I was able to feel appreciative of just how much I had already done and my impatience melted away.
When my right shoulder ached from overdoing the wave cloud hands exercise in tai chi…
I said to myself, “Thank you for everything. I have no complaints whatsoever,” then I was able to feel appreciative of my body’s incredible ability to heal itself and the pain lessened almost immediately.
When I was about to remind my teenage daughter – yet again – to put away her dirty dishes…I said (to myself) “Thank you for everything. I have no complaints whatsoever,” then I was able to remember how kind and gentle she is and my annoyance was replaced by gratitude.
The moment I stop my negative thoughts, relax and give thanks instead, I feel better. When I feel better I feel more loving and I find it easier to have a more positive, happier outlook. With a happier outlook comes more energy, the world becomes a better place, and life becomes a more joyful experience.
If you can make a habit of saying “Thank you for everything, I have no complaints whatsoever,” you will find that Life really IS good and it’s not so hard to find “Joy First.”
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i love it, Miriam:
perfect timing… this morning, someone complained “how i do things”… i hadn’t read this yet… after hearing that comment-my flow stopped… (yes, i am aware that i let that happen) ……. now i am smiling and in hindsight, saying: “thank you for everything. i have no complaints what so ever”….. i feel lighter and can move on and not carry that ‘weight’.
being happy is much more fun.
Leonarda
Thanks Leonarda and for the reminder to me to keep practicing this too.